Widows shine your eyes, spirit, soul and mind if you want to remarry. I have many reasons for this advice base on my profession and my advocacy for widows.
I advocate for widows that want to remarry to do so because no one can determine their happiness and if marriage will give them joy, then the ball is in their courtyard. The bible even admonish widows that they should marry if they can't stay alone instead of burning. This is a personal decision that only you can make by considering the pro and cons stirring at you.
Nevertheless, I would love the widows to look well before leaping because they are already saddled with the responsibility of looking after their children alone and should not add more burden. They should marry someone that will be a support network and love their children as his own not someone that will only collect the little that they have.
Widows should marry someone better than their late hubby and not lower their standard just because they must remarry.
If you are someone like me that is focusing on raising their children and heaven, that can stay alone like Paul said that it is better for widows to stay. Then you are free to do so as long as you will not burn.
Life is full of choices, so make the right decision that will give you peace, joy and happiness.
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